tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3790039640022370314.post5653350888418868795..comments2023-03-20T10:53:37.285-05:00Comments on Cabin Fever: So I need your opinion...KJhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/13663400243994223988noreply@blogger.comBlogger8125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3790039640022370314.post-53806472238858000242008-09-26T14:42:00.000-05:002008-09-26T14:42:00.000-05:00Stonewall and I moved in together before we got ma...Stonewall and I moved in together before we got married, but after we got engaged. I feel wholeheartedly that it was the right decision for us. Moving in together was hard. We are both very independant Type A people, so we each like things our ways, no questions. Getting used to living with one another produced quite a few arguments. Had we waited and moved in together immediately following Mrs. Mootzhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11352089014962521820noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3790039640022370314.post-35546082609824634902008-09-26T09:21:00.000-05:002008-09-26T09:21:00.000-05:00All of those things you mentioned are the things R...All of those things you mentioned are the things Ranger Man and I go back and forth about- with the added funness of the fact that I want to be married and he really would rather not be. <BR/><BR/>For me, it boiled down to the fact that if I didn't move in with him, we would continue to only see each other three-four times per year and that was getting old. Really old. For me it has been worth Katehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10262080866040309013noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3790039640022370314.post-72991074820952426002008-09-25T22:26:00.000-05:002008-09-25T22:26:00.000-05:00You're concerns are exactly the same as mine. I wa...You're concerns are exactly the same as mine. I wanted to move in with my boyfriend during this past summer because he was going to be in one place and have a house. We didn't know when we would have another opportunity to spend time together. In the end we decided not to, because my parents are very conservative Christians and probably would have disowned me. Not kidding. They probably would Rebeccahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00324070913172560772noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3790039640022370314.post-25975169658104529342008-09-25T22:16:00.000-05:002008-09-25T22:16:00.000-05:00Hey there I was just browsing blogs and came acros...Hey there I was just browsing blogs and came across yours. I moved in with my husband 7 months after we started dating. It was FUN, and exciting spending that time with your best friend buying stuff together.<BR/><BR/>It didnt take away from the marriage that happened a few years later because we had new plans, a bigger place, and planning a wedding,honeymoon, deciding about babies or no babies Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3790039640022370314.post-2633023832089498572008-09-25T16:41:00.000-05:002008-09-25T16:41:00.000-05:00So, this will be TMI, sorry for that.We moved in t...So, this will be TMI, sorry for that.<BR/><BR/>We moved in together about two months before our wedding. After a LOT of fighting about it before hand. We are both insanely traditional, and did NOT want to live together before we were married. But, he was supposed to deploy the month after the wedding. And I didn't want to have to move alone! Then, he ended up going to NTC the day we got back fromd.a.r.https://www.blogger.com/profile/06915354259913245831noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3790039640022370314.post-2531787234060961642008-09-25T16:24:00.000-05:002008-09-25T16:24:00.000-05:00We lived together before we got married, but I don...We lived together before we got married, but I don't think we ever thought being married wasn't as special because of it.<BR/><BR/>I mean, I knew that he always left socks inside out and was not capable of unloading the dishwasher before we sealed the deal, but we have continued to learn new stuff about each other!<BR/><BR/>Because we are Catholic, getting married was a big deal. We take the kdhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10211802985203537006noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3790039640022370314.post-21796401726497384332008-09-25T15:27:00.000-05:002008-09-25T15:27:00.000-05:00I wrote some ramblings about myself, which I delet...I wrote some ramblings about myself, which I deleted, because you are in a totally different place than me on this stuff.<BR/><BR/>So I'll just offer information that I've heard from others. There's an inexplicable change in your relationship after the marriage ceremony, regardless of whether you lived together beforehand or not. I think it's a lot like the change after you get engaged. Life doesloqihttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15222690741911643356noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3790039640022370314.post-33003749720745718312008-09-25T13:30:00.000-05:002008-09-25T13:30:00.000-05:00Seriously, you just outlined my 3 EXACT concerns. ...Seriously, you just outlined my 3 EXACT concerns. You've heard my rants before, you know... <BR/><BR/>I agree, I'm so nervous that it won't feel "special" when we get married because we've already gotten to live together and do all the "fun" living together things. <BR/><BR/>You obviously know what we decided was best for us. But I worry about the same things you do. <BR/><BR/>I can't reallyLindsay Grayhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17806169103662573253noreply@blogger.com